What, really, IS the Bohemian Style?
Hey y’all,
One thing I’ve noticed in discussions about things “bohemian”:
When building the “bohemian look,” quite often, the clothing is already “branded” as “bohemian” or “boho,” such as, now, manufacturers are producing individual garments created with the bohemian rules in mind: Garb that is flowing, is highly embellished; clothing that has the prescribed characteristics of the bohemian trend.
We are told that, in order to dress in the bohemian way, we must wear loose-fitting, flowy dresses and tops, boots, and carry funky bags.
I’ve seen sites online, saying, essentially, “the way you build a bohemian outfit is…” and, then, going on to dictate that one must wear this type of dress and a certain category of shoe, and carry a particular kind of bag. To me, anything that is imposed unconditionally doesn’t leave room for one’s own “flavor.”
I love all these things—don’t get me wrong! But, when we are told what to wear—is that not going against the true meaning of the word bohemian?
A bohemian is one who is free of rules; one who doesn’t follow just because others are following—but, instead, blazes her own trail; one that, in this case, wears what she pleases regardless of what others might think—or, what others wear, or how others might stare at her with disdain or ridicule.
I personally think many stare just because they see someone different—a free spirit, one who is distinctive, who stands out in the crowd. Even though you may think they stare with scorn, they may actually be even envious of you, that you have enough self confidence to dare to dress in your own personal style!
I’ve been told I’m brave to dress distinctively.
As I have said in my other posts, I always consider that the best definition for bohemian is “unconventional.” True bohemian style is not wearing specific items that are “boho must-haves,” as in the photo above. No! That, in my opinion, is the bohemian fashion, which factors in fads, crazes, and trends.
No, in its truest sense, bohemian style is being free to express oneself in one’s choice of raiment, not being bound to what others tell you you must wear! These are rules. Bohemians buck the rules!
This type of thinking opens the bohemian style to a whole new level! “Unconventional” is more than the current bohemian trend; it’s a freedom in the way one thinks—one’s attitude toward life, which reflects in one’s attire.
I was truly freed when I decided—many years ago, that I would dress the way I wanted to dress, without regard to what was in vogue at the time.
People couldn’t understand my look: I remember a woman who approached me in the grocery store. With a big smile on her face, she exclaimed, “I love your outfit!” Then, followed that with,”Where do you work?” My reply changed her expression to one of puzzlement and confusion when I said, “This is not a uniform. These are my clothes.” She said, “Oh,” and walked away.
So, because I now accept and willingly embrace much of the so-called bohemian style, this doesn’t mean that I am following the crowd. It just so happens that the bohemian trend—in fashion, now, flows with what I like. So, I like what’s in fashion now because fashion has come around to what I like.
So, How Can You Be a True Bohemian?
If you are naturally of the unconventional persuasion, you’re already a bohemian. You don’t need tutorials on “How to Dress Bohemian.”
Just be yourself!
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